“THE LESSON”
The Time: Any Girl’s Adolescence
The Place: Middle
School
The Lesson: That the size of her breasts,
whether she buys it or not, are an important issue of being feminine
in our culture and that she will continue to be reminded of this
for the rest of her life. That her breasts will be fair
game for criticism and analysis by her peers, both female and
male. That her breasts will play a part in her appearance’s
making a first impression on many occasions, and that her physical
beauty will be judged, in part, by the perceived size and shape
of them. That her male peers especially will be taught
that they have an inherited right to an opinion of her breasts
and a right to share this opinion openly. This culture
considers that a ‘healthy, red-blooded male attitude’, That
she will not have the same right to openly analyze and criticize
her male peer’s anatomy; that is threatening and ‘unbecoming’ of
her. That the reinforcement of this attitude by the fashion
industry (in surveys of over 400 top models, 85% admitted to
having had breast enlargement) to fulfill their need to have ‘perfect’ breasts;
this is not without risk. The rewards are monumental: ownership
of ‘female beauty’ as defined by our culture, power,
attention and control. Conversely, the incident of male
models seeking enlargement of sexual body parts is a non-issue
and for all intents and purposes, non-existent.”